As I continue building Small Steps, I envision it as a resource that genuinely helps families—something that supports children in building emotional resilience and parents in navigating life’s transitions. But what I’m discovering is how deeply this journey is changing me personally. It stirs up an endless cycle of emotions—excitement and joy on some days, yes, but also fear, doubt, and the persistent questions: “Is this worth it? Am I enough? Is what I’m doing unique enough?”
Each phase pulls me through different emotional currents, and there are days when self-doubt feels overwhelming. My mind spirals, comparing what I’m creating to the abundance of information already out there. I wonder: Will Small Steps be valuable enough? Am I truly worthy of putting this out into the world? But thankfully, my coach and mentor, JodiGolda Kolmitor, shared a piece of wisdom that continues to reframe this journey in a profound way.
She told me something she learned from her mentor: Imagine trying to make the perfect Thanksgiving meal every single night. Preparing elaborate, once-a-year dishes, setting the table just so, and presenting everything to perfection—it’s exhausting just thinking about it! Attempting to live up to that every day would lead to complete burnout. Instead, what’s sustainable and still nourishing is making a well-prepared turkey sandwich—something wholesome, simple, and beautiful in its own right. Sometimes that sandwich takes fifteen minutes to prepare; other days, it’s a five-minute effort. But it’s fulfilling, sustainable, and enough.
This metaphor has become my mantra. When I focus on Small Steps, I’m not trying to reinvent the wheel every day; I’m making sure what I offer is approachable, helpful, and manageable, like that turkey sandwich. Not every resource or class I create needs to be groundbreaking. If it nourishes someone, even just a little, then it’s valuable. And I remind myself daily that Small Steps doesn’t need to mirror what’s already out there or aim for flawless perfection—it needs to reflect me and resonate with families on a human level.
We often think that for our work to matter, it must be novel, shiny, or groundbreaking. But true worth doesn’t come from perfection; it comes from authenticity. What makes Small Steps different is that it’s infused with my real experiences—my struggles, breakthroughs, and growth. This journey isn’t about presenting a perfect image. It’s about sharing the lessons I’ve learned, even when they’ve been hard-earned.
Parenting makes this even more personal. Life will undoubtedly throw challenges our children’s way, making them question their worth and value. If we teach them to embrace their own “small steps”—to trust their unique paths—we equip them with tools for resilience and growth. And as parents, what better way to guide them than by living the lessons we want to teach?
Through Small Steps, I hope to share not only tools but also a reminder that we’re all navigating this journey together. It’s okay to feel uncertain. It’s okay to question ourselves. And it’s okay to take small steps, knowing they’re enough.
P.S. I want to give a heartfelt shoutout to my coach, Golda, who has been an incredible guide throughout this journey. She works with women not just on building their businesses but also on the inner work—navigating fear, perfectionism, and aligning with true values. If you’re curious, she offers a free, no-pressure call to help uncover clarity and breakthroughs. I can’t recommend her enough!
Reflect and Move Forward
As you go about your day, consider this: What small step can you take today that feels authentic and sustainable? What is one manageable “turkey sandwich” you can make for yourself or your family that will nourish, without overwhelming you? Remember, small steps are enough.